Possibilities ... hope ... success. This is the true meaning of our school pledge at Richmond Elementary School. Every child begins life with the first two. But every child deserves all three!
This also is the meaning of our Chapter 1 Schoolwide Project. With staff and parents working together, we are creating a school community where children are the focus, where their success at school--and in life--is everyone's goal.
Richmond's federally funded Chapter 1 Schoolwide Project began in 1989. We were the second school in Oregon to embark on this new "schoolwide" concept. After one successful year, our program is now used as a model for others.
And, now that our program has become a success, we're pleased to share it with you. If you have any questions, we'd be happy to give you more information.
The Chapter 1 Schoolwide Project Planning Committee
Richmond Elementary School
Kathy Bebe, Principal
Key personnel in our program include a parent involvement coordinator, Chapter 1 project coordinator and teachers, child development specialists, principal, and office staff.
In this schoolwide project, all children receive Chapter 1 educational services as a consistent part of their curriculum. It permeates the school!
Because of internal shifting of teacher schedules, children are not pulled out of their classrooms for special programs. This can waste everyone's time and energy. Plus, no one is singled out for being "slow" or "disadvantaged." Everyone is part of everything. This leads to improved self-esteem, which leads to greater academic performance. Our teachers also have noticed fewer classroom disruptions.
To support this effort, Richmond staff were trained in a Collaborative Consultation model, and Discipline with Love and Logic, an effective technique to build a child's self-esteem. Other programs help staff increase their awareness of multicultural issues. Richmond is a bilingual school with a high Hispanic population.
Parental involvement is another major reason this project succeeds. Teachers and staff work with parents to build parenting skills and instill a love of learning in the whole family.
--Laura Hildebrandt Parent
Programs that have increased parents' involvement include:
--Arnie Leppert Oregon Department of Education
Special Thoughts on Raising Kids Kathy Bebe, Principal
People often ask how they can support their children to ensure they excel. This often means, "What can I do to make sure my child gets ahead or is a winner?" Sometimes it mans, "What can I do to help my child be successful, feel secure, and lead a happy life?" It doesn't matter which question is asked. The answer is the same.
The foundation for success lies in the belief that the best solution to any problem comes from within. Then if you don't find the answers ask for advice from others.
Parents and teachers can help children develop this attitude by being understanding and sympathetic each time a child has a problem. This can be done in variety of ways such as, "I bet that really bothers you," or "Wow! I bet that makes you feel mad," or "If that happened to me, I would really feel ..."
These types of statements usually bring about some kind of response which conveys that the child is relieved that we understand. As soon as we see that response, it is time to ask one of the most important questions children ever hear, "What do you think you are going to do about it?" This is a powerful statement because it implies that we know the child is capable of doing his or her own thinking.
This question is often answered by, "I don't know." This is a good time to offer some different kinds of solutions. We discuss the possible consequences with the youngster, and then allow the child to choose the solution he/she likes best, even if it means that the child decides not to solve his/her problem.
Children have too few opportunities to learn about and practice for the real world. These opportunities present themselves most often as problems to solve or decisions to make. Each time I move into the situation, solve the problem or rescue the child, I have stolen one of the child's growth experiences. He or she is now less prepared to face the real world than if I had been there with understanding and the question, "What are you going to do about it?"
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Reflecciones Especiales en la Crianza de Niños Kathy Bebe, Directora
"Me han preocupado los niños Willcox," dijo la mamá de Debbie. "Después vino Debbie y me dijo que un día la Señora Wilcox le había dicho a sus niños. '¡ Debbie significa un desastre! ¡Yo tabié había pensando lo mismo acerca de ellos!"
Proteja la Relación con Su Niños
La relaión que existe entre un niño y sus padres es fundamental y afecta a todas sus otras relaciónes. Los padres que tratan de cambiar las relacióes que tienen sus niños se encuentran muchas veces que es la relación con sus niños la que termina afectada. Presumiendo que usted y su niños se lleven bien, es mejor darse a uno mismo de eiemplo par dar información: "¡ Me alegro que mis amigos no me traten así!," ode otro modo, "Creo que si yo tratara así a mis amigos, no tendría ninguno." Pocas veces resulta el repetir conttinuamente a otros como deben regir su vida. "Jimmy, si esos niños te tratan así, no juegues con ellos."
Porque los niños imitan a sus padres, es provechoso para usted dar consejo usandose a sí mismo de ejemplo: "¿Te gustaría escuchar lo que yo haría?" o "Bueno, si Marge (una amiga de los padres) me quitara mis cosas y no me las quisiera devolver, yo probablemente haría todo por no juntarme mucho con ella."
Evite Criticas
Cuando su niños le cuenta de situaciónes disgustosas con sus amigos, lo más seguro y generalmente mejor es decir cosas como, "¿Y como te sientes acerca de eso?," o "¿Piensas que va a ser diferente la próxima vez?," o "¿Piensas que esto va a cambiar la situación entre ustedes a largo plazo?"
Tales preguntas eben ser hechas con el motivo de conseguir información y no como si fueran hechas desde el "banquillo de los acusados." Los padres que hacen preguntas como. "Bueno pues. y ¿después que hiciste tú?," estan en realidad criticando en vez de haciendo una pregunta.
Conozca a los Amigos de Sus Niños
A veces los padres son gratamente sorprendidos cuando conocen a los amigos de sus niños. De cualquier modo, no hace ningún dañ conocer a sus amigos y es además un buen ejemplo. Esto también le permite comprender porque sus niños se sienten atraidos a ciertos amigos.
Prohibiciónes
Prohibir al niño jugar con un amigo, generalmente, le dice all muchacho que tememos que las actitudes, creecias y hábitos del otro niños lo influira. También les dice que no es capaz de pensar por sí mismo. El resultado es que el amigo generalmente se convierte en más influencia decir, "Lo unico que puedo decir de un amigo como eso es que ojalá se le peque a él algo de ti. Y estoy seguro que así será!"
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